People Reveal The Exact Moment They Knew There Wouldn't Be A Second Date
Hearing other peoples dating horror stories fun but also makes me never want to date at the same time. Being pretty new to dating in college I really don’t know what to expect. I didn’t include all of them, just the ones I thought were worth mentioning.
“He literally said this to me: ‘I’m only here to get back at my ex’ nope. -Jenna, 28
At least he was being straight up? Absolutely no bullshit from this guy. I mean that would definitely ruin the date and I’d be pissed too but you gotta respect the honestly a little bit.
“You know how some guys are against feminism? This guy was totally the opposite. He was way too mento women’s rights. He wouldn’t shut up about it. I wanted to have a nice dinner and talk about ourselves, but he wouldn’t shut up about inequality. The conversation was unequal, I’ll tell you that much. I couldn’t get a word in.” – Hannah, 25
Well everyone knows I’m not the biggest feminist in the world. I obviously believe in equal rights and opportunities and all that stuff but I don’t think I could talk about feminism for am entire date. This is worse than a guy talking about himself for an entire date without letting you get a word in edgewise.
” A few minutes into the date, he asked me if I ‘waxed down there.’ I was flabbergasted. Then he said all women should be hairless around their genitals. Fuck that guy.” -Mallory,30
Asking that on a first date is very aggressive but, if things were going well maybe he was trying to plan ahead. Maybe (definitely) he should have gone about it differently. And you can’t get mad at a guy for having a preference? He thinks all women should wax, some guys think women shouldn’t and some don’t give a fuck.
“She said she doesn’t trust lawyers and thinks they’re scum. I’m a lawyer.”-Daniel, 30
This is something that would totally happen to me. I am the queen of accidentally offending people. So I kinda feel for this girl, just ruined all her chances with one stupid comment. Unless she already knew he was a lawyer then she’s just a bitch.
“I love Buffalo Wild Wings and I take all my first dates there. My date this time though, didn’t eat her wings the right way. Fuck that shit. If she can’t polish off a wing, she can’t polish off a dick. You know what I’m saying.” – Eugene, 31
No Eugene, no one knows what you’re saying. I need to be worried about if I eat a chicken wing the right way? No, that’s far too much. Also, Buffalo Wild Wings is so good.
” She didn’t know how to use chopsticks. You talk about being worldly and shit, but you don’t know how to use chopsticks? Get out of here. -Shen, 25
Um, chopsticks are so hard? Like, SO HARD. I’ve tried to use them so many times but always just end up getting frustrated and using a fork. You’re way too picky if you don’t date someone because they can’t use chopsticks. You get the fuck out of here, Shen.
” My date was this really creepy looking guy, so no, I didn’t call him back.” -Jennifer,22
Again with the picky people. Okay so he didn’t look like Channing Tatum but was he nice? Was he funny? Was he charming? You can’t have it all sweetheart.
“We had some drinks out in Astoria, and walked by a park. He said to me, ‘It’s so dark on this block, I bet you no one would notice if someone got raped out here.’ Then he told me about his feelings on rape and how he thought some women asked for unwanted attention because of how they dressed. Fucking asshole.” -Rachael, 28
Ugh, I hate when I’m taking a nice romantic stroll through a park and then my date starts talking about how it would be the perfect place to rape someone. But seriously how could anyone think talking about rape at all, in any context, would be good for a first date? Save that heavy stuff for the second date. Or better yet, just never talk about how you think rape is a woman’s fault when talking to a women. Chances are slim that it will end well.
” He told me he didn’t read because ‘you can learn about anything by watching a video.’ God, I hated that fucking loser. -Charlie, 26
Well, he’s not wrong? It’s 2015 lady. You can probably find a video on anything that you can read about. Just google it or something.
“He basically told me straight up that he wanted to settle in a relationship and he thought that I fit that profile. What the fuck does that even mean?”- Holly 28
It means exactly what it says; he thinks you’re wifey. Ever been complimented before, jeez. That’s actually a really forward thing to say on a first date and I would go running for the hills but I’m sure he meant it in the nicest way possible.